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education-cb04ffc7f393691204de03958714db48-225x225.webp colorado's empty classrooms are a warning for america

(in education, schools, college)

Very interesting facts and related ramifications. Colorado colleges are bracing for what education experts call an 'enrollment cliff.' Fewer high school graduates mean fewer college applicants. Read/watch here. Or here Fewer high school graduates mean fewer college applicants, shrinking tuitio ... read more

bookvault app

(in culture, writing, publishing)

"Print Books On Demand: Publish, Print & Sell Globally. Self-publish and print books on demand and sell them through our retail network or retain maximum profit through your direct selling store." Check it out here. ... read more

fascinating pain relief patch

(in life, health, pain, treatment)

Really amazing how it works. Mike Hammond Interview: Signal Relief's Drug-Free Micro-Antenna Technology for Pain Relief To learn more, click here. ... read more

equine recovery

(in culture, sports, horse-racing, aftercare)

This is nice to see: "When Recovery Is Possible. We Make It Our Mission. The HISA Equine Recovery Foundation (HERF) exists to provide a safety net when a racehorse suffers a career-ending but treatable injury. HERF ensures immediate access to quality veterinary treatment and rehabilitation in o ... read more

drones vs helicopters

(in life, traffic, tech)

Hearing the helicopter hovering over the nearby freeway this morning makes me wonder if cities/reporters are going to start using drones instead of helicopters for traffic reports/investigations any time soon. COPILOT: Short answer: yes -- drones are already being tested and used, but they won’t fu ... read more

how to build confidence and reach your goals starting today

(in life, health, mental, advice)

Busy parents juggling work and wellness, mid-career professionals carrying heavy expectations, and caregivers who keep everyone else on track often hit the same wall: goals stay clear, but follow-through feels inconsistent. The core tension is exhausting, building self-confidence seems to require ex ... read more

trump orders major overhaul of childhood vaccine policies

(in life, health, vaccines)

"Trump has signed an order that calls for fewer childhood vaccines and also recommends splitting the mumps, measles and rubella (MMR) shots. 'Decades ago, children received only a small fraction of the vaccines required today,' Trump said on Monday. 'In those times, people were much healthier and of ... read more

usmnt vs mexico match recap highlights

(in culture, sports, soccer, usmnt)

In the 80th edition of the storied rivalry, the U.S. Men's National Team defeated 10th-ranked Mexico 3-0 in the highly-anticipated Duel in the Desert that brought together the two FIFA World Cup 2026 co-hosts and Concacaf heavyweights for the first time since 2025. To help the U.S. record its third ... read more

my myracehorse horses

(in culture, sports, horse-racing)

I own 0.001% of two fillies through MyRaceHorse. That's one-thousandth of one percent, so even if the horses become millionaires, it doesn't add up to much for me. It's just fun. Elevated, a 2 year-old filly out of Flightline trained by Bill Mott, "flipped" in the paddock in her first start attempt ... read more

data-center-79225b655a52dd98c0be2e09ab1d5e0b-1075x512.jpg fighting and winning against data centers

(in life, health, environment, water)

At minute 5 of this video is great news about how a community in Oregon got their elected officials to vote against a data center proposal. And there's another example of a town coming together to fight against another one. Great examples. Are people starting to realize these data centers are ushe ... read more

families-0a5bea7d8665d64044424d47ce6988ea-1500x1000.jpg how parents of special needs children can balance life and career successfully

(in life, help, advice, parenting)

Working parents raising disabled children often carry two full-time roles at once, and the overlap is where the hardest work-life balance struggles live. Between school calls, therapy schedules, sleepless nights, and the pressure to stay reliable at work, balancing personal and professional life can ... read more

roads-fields-288e3e2714ddb6c97c07caa24130a109-1920x1200.webp why roads get like washboards

(in education, research, travel, roads)

Pretty interesting. I had this question recently and see I was completely wrong with my assumption. If you drive on gravel roads, you may have noticed washboards. Why Roads Get Washboards - 18 min My brother-in-law told me it was because people are driving too fast. . . but I didn't have an expla ... read more

mike-adams-3000751068be813334d09e6c55dae7d0-225x225.webp this is the sodium-ion battery we've been waiting for

(in education, research, tech, batteries)

Exciting off grid battery technology. Mike Adams explains this new technology that will be ready to buy next year, maybe. . ... read more

cleo-e209e00b6e7c2c8072f51c1272a1a7cc-1536x2048.webp this morning

(in culture, writing, blog)

At first light, I let Cleo out to go potty. A little later than usual. It's normally still dark or mostly dark out by the time I've fed her and she's finished inhaling her food. I stood watching her through the glass door. I sometimes prop the door open to let the cool morning air in, but it was no ... read more

derby-winner-mystik-dan-df66ccac9c3e58d6607109e04c88d94a-1240x827.webp leading from the rear: how herd instinct shapes kentucky derby closers

(in culture, sports, horse-racing, triple-crown)

I remember my sister telling me how a dominant mare leads her herd from behind, not from in front. Being a lifelong fan of horse racing, it got me wondering how that mindset might apply there. I asked Copilot, and here is the result... Every spring, as the Kentucky Derby field loads into the gate, t ... read more


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it's a girl, it's a girl

(in family, adoption, holmes, travel) (from 2007 by tara)

Oh My Gosh what a difference 1 day makes! So, we have a beautiful blond-haired, blue-eyed, 2-1/2-year-old girl!First, the obvious question: "What happened to the 4-year-old boy?" We don't know. After 2 trips to the Minister of Education, and two interviews, they gave us a referral for this girl. It' ... read more

the rainbow ends in sacramento

(in culture, photography, humor, sports) (from 2019)

The rainbow really does end in Sacramento! My nephew Milan has captured proof. :) This was taken at their minor league team, Sacramento Rivercats, stadium where Milan works. Speaking of Sacramento, here's a list of famous people from there (because we know you were wondering):William Arthur Holmes ( ... read more

installed the new dishwasher

(in life, home-garden, appliances) (from 2010)

I finally got around to installing the new dishwasher that Tara's sister Stephanie mysteriously bought for us. Not sure why, but I never look a gift horse in the mouth. Seriously, if anyone ever feels like giving me something, feel free! :) Anyway, taking apart the old one (and its hoses) released t ... read more

here's your update

(in family, adoption, holmes, travel) (from 2007 by tara)

Everyone is wanting an update! Well, we're parents of a two-year-old now. No time for updates!She is keeping us busy. Her favorite things to do are: play in the sink, play in the tub, and play in the toilet. She is a waterbaby! One of the things we were warned about an adopted child from an orphanag ... read more

chlorine dioxide breaks down glyphosate in body (allegedly)

(in life, health, treatment, minerals) (from 2019 by don)

"I should say something about bleach, as a number of critics insist MMS (chlorine dioxide) is a bleach and, thus, a poison. Chlorine dioxide, the chemical that is MMS, has never been used domestically as a bleach for cleaning toilets. It is an industrial bleach when used FOUR THOUSAND times more con ... read more

how to take your own passport photo

(in life, travel, photography) (from 2018)

I was having a hard time converting a digital photo down to the correct 2"x2" physical size. Then I found this article: take your own passport photos. At first, I was thinking "Tell me something I don't know." Then I saw the link to the State Department's own online passport photo editor (photo tool ... read more

breakthrough tech to store food unrefrigerated for weeks

(in education, tech, food, storage) (from 2021)

Wow, this is huge! Expensive refrigeration was cutting into Vipul Saran’s profits. As an undergrad in India, and the third generation in his family to work in agriculture, Saran had started a new venture: exporting potatoes from western Uttar Pradesh to the Middle East. But the high cost of cold s ... read more

magnesium may prime immune system to fight cancer and infections

(in life, health, minerals) (from 2022)

"A simple mineral we all learned about in high school PE class could be the active ingredient in a new method of cancer treatment and prevention. In this way, magnesium has gone from being something to help us play sports longer to something that lets us play life longer. That's.... ... read more

the case for a 25 hour work week

(in life, money, employment) (from 2013)

"Whatever you may think of this theory, there are certainly many who think (including Sheryl Sandberg) the status quo 40/50...: The Case for a 25-Hour Work Week This Is Not a Joke ~ Inc.com. ... read more

Check out Temporary Insanity:
Long before winning the lottery and running for president, Dobie was living in L.A. working as a word processing temp. He thought this latest assignment was just another gig... until he met Venelia, Elroy and the Dynamos.

horse-racing-84d4d04dd5d10e03e13e12aa28d6cb96-1600x600.webp a day at the races

(in culture, writing, stories, horse-racing) (from 1998)

[from 1994] The first Saturday in May. What does this date mean to you? Probably nothing, except that Spring has arrived, unless you live in California where it's been Spring for two months at least -- real Spring, not calendar Spring. Ask any horse racing buff, though, and they'll tell you the firs ... read more

giving machines are all the rage

(in life, help, charity, tech) (from 2021)

We bought the "Lumber" item just the other day at the Giving Machine in front of Nashville's Bridgestone Arena as my wife's friend Andrea Ballard sang Christmas carols nearby. See more here: cool-vending-giving-machines-allow-people-to-donate-gifts-to-those-in-need-all-over-the-world ... read more

quote of the day (7/14/2012)

(in culture, quotes) (from 2012)

"The War on Terror"™ is a product. It doesn't exist to keep us safe. On the contrary, it exists to keep us in a state of fear." -- Liberty Underground News Service ... read more

Check out The Lazy Pug CafeThe Lazy Pug Cafe:
The Lazy Pug Café was a dilapi­dated old farm­house aban­doned years ago. A massive, ancient oak tree, Ol' Lightnin', lurked out back while the house itself served as a sad but char­m­ing re­minder of days gone by.

a week of testing

(in life, money, employment) (from 2013)

Took a test yesterday. Hope I passed! New job depends on it! Hope I did better than the previous day's job-related test. That one was on Windows 7 and Server 2008 techie stuff, and I just haven't kept up with Win 7, not as a tech, especially in regard to its various corporate scenarios. The test onl ... read more


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one name, five books, a singular journey...by william arthur holmes

Temporary Insanity, Operation Detour, Dobie's Dilemma, Lottery President and Another Way have been stitched together as an episodic saga starring Dobie Pokorny.


Dobie’s twenties in L.A. are a blur of temp jobs and one disastrous romance with a cult member named Venelia. When that implodes, he escapes to Kuala Lumpur, where he’s drawn into the dangerous orbit of Riva, a secret‑agent‑in‑training whose world is built on shadows and secrets.

Nashville offers no refuge. He marries a woman who resembles Riva but is not her, and when he and his colleague Darla expose corruption inside their company, they’re forced into Witness Protection.

Resurfacing in Louisville, Dobie’s fortunes swing wildly when he wins the lottery. Instead of laying low, he launches an impulsive presidential campaign, putting himself back in the crosshairs of powerful enemies.

Still searching for meaning, he writes a manifesto and takes his message on the road. The universe answers with Semmy — a little blue alien whose motives are as unclear as the danger closing in.

Hunted by Colonel Charonne and Major Watson, Dobie finally finds an anchor in Kaylie, the first person who brings clarity to the chaos surrounding him. But even hope comes with consequences.


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valdez tossed as hinch questions lhp's actions
  Isn't being hit by a pitch after back-to-back homeruns kind of expected?

the gateway experience of 432hz and exiting the hologram. have our brains become smaller?
  Probably.

this aired right after charlie kirk's assassination, a young woman describing what she saw with her own eyes
  This is click-bait. She says nothing interesting. The reason for the gag order is to avoid poisoning the jury pool.

good news in history, july 5
  I wouldn't call this good news, but it is notable.

trump sends saudi nuclear deal to congress
  "Riyadh must normalize relations with Israel" because Israel now runs U.S. foreign policy thanks to Trump's spinelessness.

most voters say trump hasn't been successful in cleaning up 'deep state,' poll finds
  I'm with the "34% Not at all successful" crowd.

u.s. imposes visa bans on key figures involved in global censorship pressure
  ...unless they're pro-Israel.

danish cattle dropping like flies after government mandates
  Denmark apparently can't be trusted with animals, period.

trump's unconscionable un rant
  His mental balance has always been questionable.

trump tells airlines venezuela's airspace is 'closed in its entirety' as tensions rise
  Trump is creating his own little Bay of Pigs scenario.

trump helicopter nearly collides with passenger jet faa
  I wouldn't call a mile away all that close.

up to 80,000 african migrants have crossed from morocco into spain
  Not Spain, proper. A Spanish enclave in Morocco.

american man went to a mcdonald's just built, filmed the new play place for kids
  That is sad.

gop senators saying we need to be a check against trump's overreach
  Yes, they do. That's their job, always.

is ai the preamble to creating the idiocracy?
  I thought the idiocracy was already here.

will federal covid indictment turn the tide on washington secrecy?
  Only the removal of politicians can fix Washington secrecy.

venezuelan minister claims video of u.s. strike on drug boat is ai fake
  Probably is, knowing Trump's non-stop smoke and mirrors.

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how to copy a music cd to your phone

(in culture, music, tech from 2025)

Question: Is there a way to put a CD onto my phone so I can play them from my phone in my car through the radio? Answer: You would have to put your CD into a PC, have the PC convert those songs to files on its hard drive (C:) somewhere, then connect your phone to that PC and copy them from the PC to ... read more

thirtieth anniversary of moving to nashville

(in culture, writing, blog, nashville from 2023)

Tomorrow, August 26, will be my 30th anniversary of having moved from Los Angeles to Nashville. Here is my old newsletter write-up upon arrival. Here's my route, on Google Maps. Below is the woman anxiously awaiting my arrival in Nashville... not. At bottom is the condo I eventually moved into -- ... read more

a saga of seven

(in culture, writing, poetry from 2008) by lionel

This is a story in the style called rap that'll surely encourage an afternoon nap of a family of seven, their kids and their wives and something regarding their travels and lives. Now first there was Greg, a Brooklyn-born lad; and then it was Lucy that Mom and Dad had. She was born at Sing Sing ... read more

turn your computer into a chrome device

(in culture, writing from 2019)

From NeverWare.com at neverware.com"Ready to turn your computer into a Chrome device? You're in the right spot. The Home edition is our free version of CloudReady, intended only for personal use by individuals. It offers the same experience as our paid versions, but it doesn't come with access to ou ... read more

blue ashes music

(in culture, music, rock from 2021)

These guys played in my neighborhood today (still playing, actually) for the neighborhood pool party. They're pretty good, so I thought I'd mention them here. And, apparently, one of my neighbors (or at least someone local) had to step up and fill in for someone. The website only shows the lead sing ... read more

some of my favorite actors

(in culture, movies-tv-video, people, entertainers from 2024)

... plus a few I have a picture of for other articles, so I included them. It's not my fault the women are all beautiful... other than Mrs. Doubtfire. ... read more

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always read articles from the bottom up

(in education, news, advice from 2020)

You should always read politically-sensitive articles from the bottom, up. That way you start with the most salient facts (usually downplayed and put at the bottom). Take the headline (often misleading) with a grain of salt since that is the conclusion they want you to reach, as well as the pictures ... read more

remove addresses from windows 10

(in education, tech, computers, software from 2022) by hepya

EXHAUSTIVELY search all your e-mail folders -- ALL OF THEM, TRASH, SPAM, INBOX, ARCHIVES, everything -- for e-mails that contain the bad address. Remember that if the bad address was one of several in a message, even if it bounced the address is still part of that message. And it might be in a reply ... read more

in 45 words

(in education, civics, constitution from 2026)

Just a reminder of our Constitutionally-protected freedom of speech, religion and assembly. I.e., the First Amendment. "Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press; or the right of t ... read more

what is that port on my pc?

(in education, tech, computers from 2020) by hepya

Very helpful website with images and explanations here."A computer port is an interface or point of connection between the computer and its peripheral devices. Some common peripherals are the mouse, keyboard, monitor (display), printer, speakers, flash drive, etc." ... read more

e-recycling services in nashville

(in education, tech, computers, hardware from 2018) by hepya

Electronic Waste-Recyclingelectronic recycling nashville area ... read more

solar-pavement driveways made of plastic bottles can power the average household

(in education, research, tech, solar from 2020)

"You've already heard about solar-paneled rooftops, but now, a company from Hungary is powering residential homes with solar driveways." : solar-driveways-made-from-pet-can-power-average-household/ ... read more

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picture of us before court

(in family, adoption, holmes, travel from 2007)

From several days ago, the morning of our court appearance. Taken by the other adoptive family in town for their first trip, the Mees. We have one more visit today before we pick her up Monday. Our ten-day wait is over tomorrow, but because that's Sunday, we wait until Monday. Then we start the proc ... read more

she's warming up to us

(in family, adoption, holmes, travel from 2007)

We had her laughing, smiling and giggling today. I pushed her around on the three-wheeler, then "flew" her around the room. She even let us chase her around, and it didn't scare her when I chased her!She seemed more comfortable with Tara than she was with me today, so that's good. They can do "girli ... read more

more pictures of elizabeth in california

(in family, holmes, elizabeth from 2008)

See more pictures, below. ... read more

to the embassy

(in family, adoption, holmes, travel from 2007)

Our last stop before the airport on the magical mystery tour is the US Embassy. They will make Elizabeth a US citizen and a registered Republican. Just kidding about that last part. I wonder if the Children's Hope people will give us that promised tour of Moscow today, finally. I don't really care i ... read more

nothing much to update about

(in family, adoption, holmes, travel from 2007)

She's just driving us crazy. Luckily, Tara is taking the brunt of it. I had to get out and walk around town in the freezing cold, just for the sake of getting out. I was at least useful, coming back with some groceries. Elizabeth's sweet as can be and very playful most of the time, but she turns on ... read more

tara the hero cat attempts to throw a ceremonial first pitch

(in family, pets, cats, dogs from 2014)

Watch Tara the Hero Cat attempt to throw a ceremonial first pitch.. The 'first pitch' video is now missing from the Times, but there's link to the original news report, although YouTube has marked it 'offensive to some viewers.' Who are these viewers? Ridiculous. Here's another link. UPDATE: Nop ... read more

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being overweight means you live longer

(in life, health, fitness, research from 2015)

I guess the only "diet" most of us need to be on is non-GMO.The figures actually show that being 'overweight' is healthier than being 'underweight' or within the 'normal' BMI range -- and can lead to a longer life, Dr Malcolm Kendrick explains.: Why being 'overweight' means you live longer: The way ... read more

visiting family in kansas

(in life, travel, usa, kansas from 2005)

Kansas. What an incredibly boring state. Tara, her sister Sandie, niece Destiny, and I flew from Nashville to attend her youngest sister Stephanie's high school graduation in Council Grove. Tara and I figured we'd find something to do that night upon arrival in Kansas City, followed by more touring ... read more

why faking enthusiasm is the latest job requirement

(in life, money, employment from 2013)

I hate when companies do this. Create a better environment for your employees, don't require them to be a pack of phonies!: Why Faking Enthusiasm Is The Latest Job Requirement"...seeming to love the job becomes part of the job" ... read more

watching more than 4 hours tv per day linked to poorer heart health

(in life, health, exercise, movies-tv-video from 2020)

Probably staring at any flickering screen: phone, computer, or TV. "Researchers from the University of Groningen scoured DNA of more than 400,000 Britons for genetic locations linked to sedentary behaviour such as... Couch potatoes who can't tear themselves away from the TV might have inherited th ... read more

life, the universe, god provides

(in life, gifts, appreciation from 2021)

Not your typical Sunday morning sermon.Last night before going to bed, my wife Tara was saying, "Be on the lookout for branches. I want to use a couple of 'trees' for our [front porch] Halloween display this year. You know, clean them off, paint them black, and put lights on them? Something like tha ... read more

benefits of turmeric (2013)

(in life, health, food, plants from 2013)

"Nothing can replace exercise, but turmeric extract does a pretty good job of producing some of the same cardiovascular health benefits, most notably in women undergoing age-associated adverse changes in arterial health.: (see related links here)Also... Both turmeric and black pepper have key active ... read more

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