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A Few Tips
by don - 2001-01-28 ( life / help / advice ) [html version]
Reheat Pizza
Heat up leftover pizza in a non-stick skillet on top of the stove, set heat to med-low and heat till warm. This keeps the crust crispy. No soggy micro pizza. I saw this on the cooking channel and it really works.
Easy Deviled Eggs
Put cooked egg yolks in a zip lock bag. Seal, mash till they are all broken up. Add remainder of ingredients, reseal, keep mashing it up mixing thoroughly, cut the tip of the baggy, squeeze mixture into egg. Just throw bag away when done easy clean up.
Expanding Frosting
When you buy a container of cake frosting from the store, whip it with your mixer for a few minutes. You can double it in size. You get to frost more cake/cupcakes with the same amount. You also eat less
Sugar/calories per serving.
Reheating refrigerated bread
To warm biscuits, pancakes, or muffins that were refrigerated, place them in a microwave with a cup of water. The increased moisture will keep the food moist and help it reheat faster.
Newspaper weeds away
Start putting in your plants,work the nutrients in your soil. Wet newspapers put layers around the plants overlapping as you go cover with mulch and forget about weeds. Weeds will get through some gardening plastic they will not get through wet newspapers.
Broken Glass
Use a dry cotton ball to pick up little broken glass pieces of glass- the fibers catch ones you can't see!
No More Mosquitoes
Place a dryer sheet in your pocket. It will keep the mosquitoes away.
Squirrel Away!
To keep squirrels from eating your plants sprinkle your plants with cayenne pepper. The cayenne pepper doesn't hurt the plant and the squirrels won't come near it.
New bike
If you purchase a new bike for your child, place their picture inside The handle bar before placing the grips on. If the bike is stolen and later recovered, remove the grip and there is your proof who owns the bike.
Flexible vacuum
To get something out of a heat register or under the fridge add an empty paper towel roll or empty gift wrap roll to your vacumn. It can be bent or flattened to get in narrow openings.
Reducing Static Cling
Pin a small safety pin to the seam of your slip and you will not have a clingy skirt or dress. Same thing works with slacks that cling when wearing panty hose. Place pin in seam of slacks and -- voilà -- static is gone.
Measuring Cups
Before you pour sticky substances into a measuring cup, fill it with hot water. Dump ou t the hot water, but don't dry the cup. Next, add your ingredient, such as peanut butter, and watch how easily it comes right out.
Foggy Windshield?
Hate foggy windshields? Buy a chalkboard eraser and keep it in the glove box of your car. When the windows fog, rub with the eraser! Works better than a cloth!
Reopening envelope
If you seal an envelope and then realize you forgot to include something inside, just place your sealed envelope in the freezer for an hour or two. Voila! It unseals easily.
Conditioner
Use your hair conditioner to shave your legs. It's a lot cheaper than shaving cream and leaves your legs really smooth. It's also a great way to use up the conditioner you bought but didn't like when you tried it in your hair...
Goodbye Fruit Flies
To get rid of pesky fruit flies, take a small glass fill it 1/2" with Apple Cider Vinegar and 2 drops of dishwashing liquid, mix well. You will find those flies drawn to the cup and gone forever!
Get Rid of Ants
Put small piles of cornmeal where you see ants. They eat it, take it "home," & can't digest it so it kills them. It may take a week or so, ESP. If it rains, but it works & you don't have the worry about pets or small children being harmed!
Take baby powder to the beach
Keep a small bottle of baby powder in your beach bag. When your ready to leave the beach sprinkle yourself and kids with the powder and the sand will slide right off your skin
Advice Page
by bill - 2008-01-08 ( life / help / advice ) [html version]
You're asking me?! Actually, here's some advice:
People need to be listened to -- preferably agreed with -- more than anything else. If you could do one thing for someone that would be it.
Controlling a bad habit can be like controlling a car. You have to get inside it and take the wheel. Rising above it doesn't always work.
Personal observation and experience is the only way to really know something. Everything else is just what you THINK you know.
Don't get caught up in how stupid everyone is. Ironically, that just makes YOU stupid.
Comparing anything in nature to anything man-made is an insult to Nature. Translation: We're not worthy.
If you ever want the car in front of you to speed up, just try passing him!
Want a red light to turn green sooner? Try texting a message. It'll turn green way too soon!
There is no surer way to look old than to try and look younger.
Women wearing spandex in public need to just stop. Yes, even the good-looking ones. Wear real clothes. Do you know how many accidents you've caused because men were staring at your, uh, spandex?
Is it just me or do those NorthFace logos look like a bird crapped on your shoulder?
Just noticed I've apparently been walking around all day with a BIG tear in my shirt sleeve!
Be careful with dumbing yourself down. Before you know it, you'll "succeed." Just a bit of advice, if you're one of those who does that for the sake of your idiot friends.
People need to be nicer. No more dog eat dog. It doesn't need to be socialism, but can we at LEAST aim for NOT sociopathic?!
Remember the three R's: Respect for self; Respect for others; Responsibility for all your actions.
Intellect is great, but don't fall too much in love with it. It's just one of several tools we have for navigating/creating our lives.
If anything is learned, it's not time wasted.
The person who knows they're neither superior nor inferior to anyone is a well-informed person.
Life is like flying: You have to keep moving and make constant adjustments but there's always time for a few loop-de-loops!
You want heaven? Be an angel.
Do good deeds. Below are a few links:
Help People
- Charity Navigator
- Create the Good
- Donate your excess clutter
- Grameen Foundation
- Hands on Nashville
- Harmony Haven Therapeutic Riding and Horse Rescue
- You can use AmazonSmile instead of plain old Amazon. Choose Harmony Haven Therapeutic Riding & Horse Rescue (EIN: 26-1882493) as the charity you are supporting.
- Help an Orphan
- Just Hope International
Nashville Humane Association
- Second Harvest
- TakePart
Help Animals
- Animal Rescue Site
- Dog Rescues
- Find That Pet
- HelpMeFindMyPet.com
- Humane Society
PetFinder.com- World Society for the Protection of Animals
Help Everyone
Support Children's Hope / Hope.World by Shopping at https://smile.amazon.com and using EIN: 43-1672909
Other sites, articles and pages regarding Harmony Haven
Mailbox Over the Limit
by bill - 2009-01-05 ( education / tech / computers / advice ) [html version]
QUESTION: I started getting notices that my mailbox is over its limit. I have archived items over 90 days. What else can I do to stop these messages?
Isn't this pretty much the same as archiving to my hard drive?
I use three months.
ANSWER: You can create an Outlook Personal Folder (PST file) where you can move messages to reduce the size of your "Mailbox." To do that, from Outlook's main screen, choose File, New, Outlook Data File, click OK to accept all the default values after that. Then create folders under this Personal Folder and move any messages you want from your "Mailbox -- [firstname lastname]" folders to your "Personal Folders". Just keep in mind that these "Personal Folders" don't get backed up every night like your Mailbox does. So, if you lose the laptop or its hard drive dies, you lose those messages unless you've made another back up somewhere else.
Yes, but you can be more specific about which messages you move to the hard drive, as opposed to "everything older than 6 months" etc.
OK. But my way, if you have, for instance, a week-old email that you know has a huge attachment, you can drag and drop just THAT email into your personal folder. It just gives you more flexibility.
Fixing Profile Problems in Outlook 2003
by bill - 2009-01-05 ( education / tech / computers / advice ) [html version]
To recreate/fix your Outlook 2003 profile, do the following:
- Click on Start, Settings, Control Panel, Mail
- click on Show Profiles
- Add a new profile
- give it any NEW name you want
- click OK
- Add your same old account back as a "new" account, click Next
- Add it as a POP3 account, click Next
- You can use the same settings as your current profile is using
- Click Next and Finish
- Use the new profile by clicking the "Always use this profile" option at the bottom, click OK
Missed Appointment
by bill - 2009-01-05 ( education / tech / computers / advice ) [html version]
Well, it's happened again, luckily for only the second time in my career. A customer called me to their house, only to not be home or pretend to not be home when I got there. People, if you change your mind, just call and cancel! There is no cancellation fee! In this case, I had called her about an hour prior to the scheduled time to ask a question. She could have cancelled then! Oh well. Not a big deal. Just weird. At least customers are still calling! :)
Transferring ITunes to New Computer
by bill - 2009-01-06 ( education / tech / computers / advice ) [html version]
QUESTION: How do I transfer iTunes to my new computer?
ANSWER: I have copied your iTunes from the old computer to the new. If you haven't already "authorized" your current computer, here's how.
"If you subscribe to Apple Music, you can turn on Sync Library to access your music library and music that you've downloaded from Apple Music on all of your devices."
How to Make Outlook 2003 Open to Your Calendar by Default
by bill - 2009-01-06 ( education / tech / computers / advice ) [html version]
copied from helpdesk.ilstu.edu/kb/index.phtml?kbid=1326
By default, when you launch Outlook it opens to your Inbox. You can create a shortcut to Outlook so it opens to your calendar instead. To force Outlook to open your calendar as your default view, do the following:
How to Restore Contacts in Windows Live Mail
by bill - 2009-01-06 ( education / tech / computers / advice ) [html version]
Q: I had some problems with this program. I fixed the POP and SMTP server designations, and it works now. However, I've lost my contacts -- the folder is blank. The funny thing is, when I type some letters in the "to" box, names come up. Do you have any idea how I can restore my contacts list?
A: From this web page, woanware.co.uk/?page-id=89, try this free tool, woanware.co.uk/downloads/EseDbViewer.v.1.0.5.zip. After installing it, open it and point it to the following directory:
"%UserProfile%Local SettingsWindows Live Contacts"
You might have multiple randomly-named folders in there.
- Drill down into each one and open the "contacts.edb" file.
- In there, find one that has items in the Email Address table
- Highlight and export that table to a "CSV Current Table" file
- Open up your Windows Live Mail program and go to the Contacts tab
- Click File, Import, CSV
- Assign the Address field to Live Contact's Email Address field. The interface looks weird/clunky, but it works.
- Click OK, Finish, etc. when ready.
That should do it.
How to Anonymize Your Browsing
by bill - 2010-05-10 ( education / tech / computers / advice ) [html version]
To anonymize your browsing, use one of these "anonymizer" sites and/or programs:
Sites
Programs
-->The Sneakiest New Shopping Scams
by bill - 2010-11-04 ( life / help / advice / shopping ) [html version]
"The holidays are nearly upon us and the souring economy is on everyone's minds. Considering the economic climate we need to be much more cautious about our shopping and be on the lookout for scams.
Read, listen or watch the rest here: Sneakiest shopping scams
4 Simple Ways to Minimize Household Chemicals
by bill - 2010-11-04 ( life / help / advice / home-garden ) [html version]
"We are addicted to chemicals: bleach, ammonia, window cleaner, toilet bowl cleaner, drain cleaner, shampoo, body wash, laundry detergent, fabric softener, conditioner, deodorant, toothpaste, body creams, shave gel, dish soap, antibacterial spray, deodorizer, mildew remover, and the list goes on and on.
Read, listen or watch the rest here: 4 Simple Ways to Minimize Household Chemicals
New Rules for Writers
by bill - 2011-01-26 ( culture / writing / advice ) [html version]
Anis Shivani: New Rules For Writers: Ignore Publicity, Shun Crowds, Refuse Recognition And More
"These "rules" totally go against every prescription for writing success you'll hear as a young [new] writer from all quarters: the conformity-driven MFA system, the publishing industry's hype-machine, successful writers who act either like prima donnas or untouchable mystics, the marketing experts who seek to impose advertising rules on the writing product. Overpaid editors, illiterate agents, arrogant gatekeepers, and stupid reviewers want you to bargain away your soul for a pittance -- the bids in the market escalate downward, a reverse auction where you compete with the lowest of the low to be acknowledged as an entity that counts."
New Rules for Writers -- Your Novel Blueprint -- Advice for Writing -- Writers Need Followers? -- Good Article About Storytelling -- Best and Worst Self-Publishing Sites -- Thoughts on Writing -- More Advice for Writers -- Ingredients of a Novel -- Lee Child Quote -- Elements of a Story -- Still More Advice for Writers
Don't Take Potassium Iodide Unless Already Exposed to Radiation
by bill - 2011-03-18 ( life / health / advice / treatment ) [html version]
Click below: dont-take-potassium-iodide-unlessHere's a website all about nuclear energy, courtesy of my brother: all things nuclear/
Advice to High School Graduates
by bill - 2011-07-15 ( life / help / advice / schools ) [html version]
To anyone teaching or raising kids, of any age, here's some advice dished out at a high school speech about 11 things they did not learn in school. He talked about how feel-good, politically correct teaching has created a full generation of kids with no concept of reality and how this concept set them up for failure in the real world.
" Life is not fair -- get used to it.
The world won't care about your self-esteem. The world will expect you to accomplish something BEFORE you feel good about yourself.
You will NOT make 40 thousand dollars a year right out of high school. You won't be a vice president with a car phone, until you earn both.
If you think your teacher is tough, wait till you get a boss. He doesn't have tenure.
Flipping burgers is not beneath your dignity. Your grandparents had a different word for burger flipping-they called it opportunity.
If you mess up, it's not your parents' fault, so don't whine about your mistakes, learn from them.
Before you were born, your parents weren't as boring as they are now. They got that way from paying your bills, cleaning your clothes and listening to you talk about how cool you are. So before you save the rain forest from the parasites of your parent's generation, try delousing the closet in your own room.
Your school may have done away with winners and losers, but life has not. In some schools they have abolished failing grades and they'll give you as many times as you want to get the right answer. This doesn't bear the slightest resemblance to ANYTHING in real life.
Life is not divided into semesters. You don't get summers off and very few employers are interested in helping you find yourself. Do that on your own time.
Television is NOT real life. In real life people actually have to leave the coffee shop and go to jobs.
Be nice to nerds. Chances are you'll end up working for one."
Escape from Zip Ties
by bill - 2011-10-05 ( culture / people / advice / crime ) [html version]
If you're ever unlawfully detained, this might be good to know:
in front -- escape
You are the Solution You've Been Looking For
by bill - 2012-11-23 ( life / help / advice ) [html version]
"Instead of joining one more group, walking on one more march, giving to one more money bomb, sending one more breathless email about how important this issue is, do me a favor, go to the mirror and say to yourself... 'I (state your name) will take personal responsibility for my thoughts, relationships, assets and path in my life. I will stop pushing my ideas on what other people should do with theirs. I will be the change that I want to see in the world by walking away from the debt and death paradigm I actively or passively empower.'"
Read, listen or watch the rest here: You Are the Solution You've Been Looking For.
Your Novel Blueprint
by bill - 2013-01-31 ( culture / writing / advice / novels ) [html version]
Good article for writers.
"Writing a novel and building a house are pretty similar when you think about it. For instance, most builders or homeowners spend a lot of time dreaming...
Read, listen or watch the rest here: Your Novel Blueprint WritersDigest.com
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New Rules for Writers -- Your Novel Blueprint -- Advice for Writing -- Writers Need Followers? -- Good Article About Storytelling -- Best and Worst Self-Publishing Sites -- Thoughts on Writing -- More Advice for Writers -- Ingredients of a Novel -- Lee Child Quote -- Elements of a Story -- Still More Advice for Writers
If Called to Jury Duty, Be Informed
by bill - 2013-08-15 ( life / help / advice / legal ) [html version]
Click below for more info:
"FIJA works to inform potential jurors...
of their traditional, legal authority to refuse to enforce unjust laws that they cannot be required to check their consciences at the courthouse door that they cannot be punished for their verdicts Inform everyone that juror veto -- jury nullification -- is a peaceful way to protect human rights against corrupt politicians and government tyranny"
Lessons in the Art of Living
by bill - 2013-09-28 ( life / help / advice ) [html version]
Good guidelines. The snippet below is the most useful part:
"In DBT [dialectical behavior therapy], the skill is encapsulated in a mnemonic device known as..."
Read, listen or watch the rest here: Lessons in the Art of Living ~ Psychology Today.
Sit Up Straight
by bill - 2013-11-19 ( life / health / advice ) [html version]
... like my father always said. Apparently, there's more than just a physical benefit. 
"Body language is closely related to posture -- the way we move our bodies affects how others see us as well as our own moods and habits. In terms of scientific research, the two overlap quite a bit. This isn't too surprising, but how our posture and body language affect our thoughts is."
Read, listen or watch the rest here: Don't Calm Down Go ahead and let yourself get excited. It's OK! You might even enjoy yourself. They say "...getting excited helps with performance anxiety." Read the rest at activistpost.com or apa.org. "Although counter-intuitive [contrary to societal training, not counter-intuitive, if you ask me], getting excited helps with performance anxiety more than trying to calm down, and using certain statements can manufacture the remedy, creating major biochemical changes. There is a reason why not forcing oneself to calm down might work to improve our outlook."by bill - 2014-01-04 ( life / health / mental / advice ) [html version]
Advice for Writing
by bill - 2014-02-15 ( culture / writing / advice ) [html version]
A writer's narrative perspective (their "voice," or, how they come across to their reader) must be: This is me talking to you.
That's it. Nothing more, nothing less.
It's not: This is me 100 years ago speaking in a "classical" voice.
It's not: Speaking as if from professor to student or from adult to child.
It's not: This is me thinking out loud.
It's not: Look at how clever I am! See what I did with that sentence?
It's just me talking to you.
New Rules for Writers -- Your Novel Blueprint -- Advice for Writing -- Writers Need Followers? -- Good Article About Storytelling -- Best and Worst Self-Publishing Sites -- Thoughts on Writing -- More Advice for Writers -- Ingredients of a Novel -- Lee Child Quote -- Elements of a Story -- Still More Advice for Writers
How to Stop Bleeding
by don - 2015-02-21 ( life / health / treatment / advice ) [html version]
I looked online and it's hard to find direct, simple instructions, they tend to get academic or theoretical about it. It's very simple: APPLY HARD PRESSURE!
Once, I cut myself on the job trying to free a piece of metal, and got smacked in the forehead with the metal piece, and it was flowing pretty steadily. I got a paper towel and applied hard pressure for about 15 minutes and it stopped bleeding.
Another time, I dropped a ceramic bowl, it broke, bounced in the air, and the edge landed on top of my foot, right on a vein. It was practically a gusher and I had visions of bleeding to death like Stephen Foster. I did the same procedure and after about an hour, it stopped so I could steri-strip and bandage it. No stitches needed, although a doctor would have probably insisted.
A few weeks ago I developed a large skin tag on the side of my nose, real sightly! It was gradually drying out and it seemed safe to snip it off with a scissors. But it was not as dried as I thought and it started flowing pretty steadily from a small hole, not like a scrape or tear where 2 sides of the skin could fuse together. But I applied hard pressure for about an hour and it stopped.
So this is good advice for anyone who has kids or lives alone.
Dare to Be Nice
by bill - 2015-07-28 ( life / help / advice ) [html version]
... (or friendly, even) once in a while instead of "cool." As my brother-in-law says, "Jus' sayin'."
Never Combine These Over-the-counter Drugs
by bill - 2016-03-07 ( life / health / drugs / advice ) [html version]
Never combine these over-the-counter drugs. Your life may be endangered. Good to know!
Painkillers and anti-anxiety medications. The metabolic pathways inside the body that are affected by opioid painkillers like hydrocodone (Oxycontin) are the same ones affected by benzodiazepines. Both classes of drugs depress certain bodily functions, mainly those that express pain and physical anxiety.By taking both drugs at the same time, users put themselves at risk of serious illness, not the least of which includes heart failure.
Read, listen or watch the rest here: NaturalNews.com
Writers Need Followers?
by bill - 2016-12-16 ( culture / writing / advice ) [html version]
Publishers and writing "gurus" preach that writers need followers. The problem is that emotionally-stable people don't want followers. They want friends, compatriots, people who listen, not followers. Especially zombie followers. They're the worst! :)
But seriously, I don't trust anyone who actively seeks followers.
New Rules for Writers -- Your Novel Blueprint -- Advice for Writing -- Writers Need Followers? -- Good Article About Storytelling -- Best and Worst Self-Publishing Sites -- Thoughts on Writing -- More Advice for Writers -- Ingredients of a Novel -- Lee Child Quote -- Elements of a Story -- Still More Advice for Writers
If Your Brakes Go Out
by bill - 2017-01-23 ( life / help / advice / auto ) [html version]
If your brakes ever go out, just shift into Park. Better to ruin the transmission than to die!
You're welcome!
Don't ask. :)
Dumbing Yourself Down
by bill - 2017-02-04 ( life / health / mental / advice ) [html version]
Be careful when dumbing yourself down. Before you know it, you will "succeed." #dumbingusdown
Parenting Tip #426
by bill - 2017-02-16 ( family / advice ) [html version]
Parenting Tip #426: When taking out recycling/trash, check its contents. I almost threw out our daughter's purse and wallet! #parentingtips
Spend Time Instead of Money
by bill - 2017-08-14 ( life / money / advice ) [html version]
Great idea!
"... around the world, people are using a system of exchange that requires something everyone is, for the most part, given equally, every day: Time."
Read, listen or watch the rest here (prepare for so many popups, they'll cover the entire screen): are-you-tired-banks-credit-cards-and-debt-consider-system-trading-time-instead
Signs of a Stroke
by bill - 2017-08-25 ( life / health / advice ) [html version]
STROKE: Remember The 1st Three Letters... S.T.R.
A neurologist says that if he can get to a stroke victim within 3 hours he can totally reverse the effects of a stroke... totally . He said the trick was getting a stroke recognized, diagnosed, and then getting the patient medically cared for within 3 hours, which is tough. The stroke victim may suffer severe brain damage when people nearby fail to recognize the symptoms of a stroke. A bystander can recognize a stroke by asking three simple questions:
S* Ask the individual to SMILE.
T * Ask the person to TALK and SPEAK A SIMPLE SENTENCE (Coherently) (i.e. It is sunny out today)
R * Ask him or her to RAISE BOTH ARMS. If he or she has trouble with ANY ONE of these tasks, call 911 and describe the symptoms to the dispatcher.
New Sign of a Stroke: Stick out Your Tongue
If the tongue is 'crooked', if it goes to one side or the other, that is also an indication of a stroke.
How to Drain a Toilet
by bill - 2017-08-30 ( life / help / advice ) [html version]
I realized halfway through the task of draining the toilet that I didn't know how. I'd never done it before. I've drained the tank plenty of times, but not the toilet bowl itself.
It all started after I had to use a "snake" to unclog it. The snake left marks. My wife bought some "Bartenders Friend" or whatever type of cleaner. But first, the bowl needs to be drained. Anyway, here's the solution
"Although this seems to be a simple question the answer is actually somewhat tricky."
Words to Live By
by bill - 2018-04-02 ( culture / quotes / advice ) [html version]
Stay loose, keep moving, stay true to yourself... always.
Great Foreign Travel Tips
by don - 2019-03-04 ( life / travel / advice ) [html version]
The Hobo Traveler tells it like it is: don't rent a car, some cultures dishonest, police dangerous.
Read, listen or watch the rest here: youtu.be/GNBfZ6oX73w
"What Countries Give You The Most Respect, The Least?"
Digging a Shallow Well
by don - 2019-03-04 ( life / health / advice / home-garden ) [html version]
"Digging a shallow well from dowsing to digging to capping. This shallow well will provide water for our bees and supporting plants. This dig uses a modified hand auger and took about 4 hours to complete (17 feet with nearly 4 feet of water)."
This guy makes it look easy: youtu.be/5rYPRMm8Arw
World's Oldest Pm to Youngest: Listen to Old People & Hold onto Idealism
by bill - 2019-12-17 ( life / help / advice / politics ) [html version]
Malaysian leader Mahathir Mohamad, the world's oldest prime minister, has offered the world's youngest, Finland's Sanna Marin, some words of wisdom as she takes on her new role: Ask "old people" for their advice.
Read, listen or watch the rest here: mahathir-marin-finland-advice
Best and Worst Self-publishing Sites
by bill - 2019-12-24 ( culture / writing / advice ) [html version]
Good site showing who to trust (or not) when it comes to self-publishing: Self-Publishing Services Rated by the Alliance of Independent Authors
New Rules for Writers -- Your Novel Blueprint -- Advice for Writing -- Writers Need Followers? -- Good Article About Storytelling -- Best and Worst Self-Publishing Sites -- Thoughts on Writing -- More Advice for Writers -- Ingredients of a Novel -- Lee Child Quote -- Elements of a Story -- Still More Advice for Writers
Good Article About Storytelling
by bill - 2020-01-29 ( culture / writing / advice ) [html version]
"Pop culture today is obsessed with the battle between good and evil. Traditional folktales never were. What changed?"
Read, listen or watch the rest here: the-good-guy-bad-guy-myth
New Rules for Writers -- Your Novel Blueprint -- Advice for Writing -- Writers Need Followers? -- Good Article About Storytelling -- Best and Worst Self-Publishing Sites -- Thoughts on Writing -- More Advice for Writers -- Ingredients of a Novel -- Lee Child Quote -- Elements of a Story -- Still More Advice for Writers
Be Ready for the Next Power Failure
by bill - 2020-02-14 ( education / tech / energy / advice ) [html version]
A cousin just installed a 16kW generator to power the whole house. It goes on and off automatically, triggered by power failure and restoration, and runs on natural gas. See video here.
It costs about $4K plus installation. Various models on www.generac.com. He says, "I was going to use a smaller, less costly unit, but the trade-off is to then have a more labor-intensive installation of selecting only critical circuits to power. Also, I did not find portable units that run on natural gas, which this does. I don't have to store any fuel. As to neighbors hooking up, I planned for that, as the power is adequate. Next-door neighbors on both sides can plug in. BYOC (Bring Your Own extension Cord). Some goodwill to offset the 60 dB noise, about as loud as an air conditioner (I am told)."
UPDATE: As a postscript, yesterday, four days after the installation completed, we lost utility power at 9:30 AM and it is still not restored. Expected soon. Very heavy winds caused havoc with downed trees over a widespread area. As to the generator, it started automatically and functioned flawlessly all day. I manually stopped it at night to eliminate noise and save fuel cost, then turned it on this morning. When power restores it will shut off automatically. I hope your electric power source is more reliable!
Get Rid of Dog Urine Smell
by bill - 2020-03-21 ( family / pets / dogs / advice ) [html version]
"Does your whole house smell like dog urine? If so, you've come to the right place! If a dog hasn't been trained correctly or is suffering from a health problem, it's likely that it won't be able to control itself in the house. If your dog is peeing in the house, make sure not to scold it, but
rather opt for positive reinforcement. If your dog is suddenly peeing in the house, make sure to consult a veterinarian to make sure the cause is not health related.
Read, listen or watch the rest here: how to get rid of dog urine smell for details, but it's basically hydrogen peroxide, vinegar, baking soda, sodium bicarbonate, and lemon.
Thoughts on Writing
by bill - 2020-04-29 ( culture / writing / advice ) [html version]
Here's one of my brothers reading it. He seems to be enjoying himself. I swear I didn't pay him to do this. :)
If you've read any of my novels, below, please give them a review on Amazon or wherever you bought it. Thanks!
On Apple Books, Kobo, Barnes & Noble.
Ask me a question on Good Reads
Temporary Insanity, Lottery President, Operation Detour, Last Train Out, Another Way: Beyond the Status Quo, The Lazy Pug Cafe
New Rules for Writers -- Your Novel Blueprint -- Advice for Writing -- Writers Need Followers? -- Good Article About Storytelling -- Best and Worst Self-Publishing Sites -- Thoughts on Writing -- More Advice for Writers -- Ingredients of a Novel -- Lee Child Quote -- Elements of a Story -- Still More Advice for Writers
More Advice for Writers
by bill - 2020-05-26 ( culture / writing / advice ) [html version]
[Updated: 2021-03-11 04:33:18]
People read fiction seeking clarity -- in the payoff at the end of the book -- so, one of the worst things a writer can do is to create confusion. People also read fiction for a taste of something better than their own reality. So, keep it clear and concise and, most importantly, interesting... without getting too implausible.
It doesn't have to be great, but it DOES have to be FINISHED. -- William Arthur Holmes
UPDATE: ...and then I saw where Lee Child had a better quote: "Don't get it right, get it written!"
New Rules for Writers -- Your Novel Blueprint -- Advice for Writing -- Writers Need Followers? -- Good Article About Storytelling -- Best and Worst Self-Publishing Sites -- Thoughts on Writing -- More Advice for Writers -- Ingredients of a Novel -- Lee Child Quote -- Elements of a Story -- Still More Advice for Writers
How to Read the News
by bill - 2020-09-09 ( education / news / advice ) [html version]
"It's not the most original observation you'll read this week, but it's one of the most important: the news lies to you by omission. Shocked? I thought not. But let's really interrogate what this means."
Read, listen or watch the rest here: feedburner&utm_medium=feed&Feed%3A+CorbettReportRSS+%28The+Corbett+Report%29">How To Read The News
Always Read Articles from the Bottom Up
by bill - 2020-10-08 ( education / news / advice ) [html version]
You should always read politically-sensitive articles from the bottom, up. That way you start with the most salient facts (usually downplayed and put at the bottom).
Take the headline (often misleading) with a grain of salt since that is the conclusion they want you to reach, as well as the pictures of coffins (or whatever scare tactics they use).
Here is the article in question.
See also "How to read the news" by James Corbett.
Lee Child Quote
by bill - 2020-11-02 ( culture / writing / advice ) [html version]
-- Lee Child"Don't get it right, get it written!"
New Rules for Writers -- Your Novel Blueprint -- Advice for Writing -- Writers Need Followers? -- Good Article About Storytelling -- Best and Worst Self-Publishing Sites -- Thoughts on Writing -- More Advice for Writers -- Ingredients of a Novel -- Lee Child Quote -- Elements of a Story -- Still More Advice for Writers
Four Reasons Why Belief in Authority is the Most Dangerous Superstition
by bill - 2020-12-12 ( life / help / advice ) [html version]
[Updated: 2020-12-13 05:14:33]
-- Sixth grade girl"Question authority, including the authority that told you to question authority."
Read, listen or watch the rest here: wakingtimes.com/5-reasons-belief-authority-dangerous-superstition/
Looking to Get Away from It All, Permanent-Like? Here are Some Suggestions
by bill - 2020-12-13 ( life / travel / advice ) [html version]
If you're looking to get away from it all, here is some hopefully useful information. If you're primarily English-speaking (maybe looking to move permanently), here's a list of countries (whose primary language is NOT English) ranked by English Proficiency Index for their English skills. The top 12 are...
Netherlands
Denmark
Finland
Sweden
Norway
Austria
Portugal
Germany
Belgium
Singapore
Luxembourg
South Africa
All countries whose official language is English
If you'd rather avoid Corruption (might not include presidential elections), here's this from tradingeconomics.com of the top 10 (from good to bad)...
- Denmark
New Zealand- Finland
- Singapore
- Sweden
Switzerland- Norway
- Netherlands
- Germany
- Luxembourg
Ranked by Internet Speeds (as of March 2017, on tradingeconomics.com), the top 15 are...
South Korea- Norway
- Sweden
Hong Kong- Switzerland
- Finland
- Singapore
Japan- Denmark
Monaco
United States- Netherlands
Romania
Czech Republic
United Kingdom
Ranked by Crime Rate (on numbeo.com), the bottom 15 (1 being worst) are...
Venezuela
Papua New Guinea- South Africa
Afghanistan
Honduras
Trinidad And Tobago
Brazil
Guyana
El Salvador
Syria
Jamaica
Namibia
Angola
Peru
Puerto Rico
...and (on numbeo.com) the best 20 for Crime (though totalitarian regimes tend to rank highly) are as follows:
Qatar
Taiwan
United Arab Emirates
Georgia
Oman- Hong Kong
Slovenia
Isle Of Man- Switzerland
- Japan
Rwanda
Armenia
Estonia
Iceland- Austria
Croatia
Belarus- Czech Republic
- Finland
- Denmark
Last and least, these are the European countries not in the EU (yet)
Albania
Andorra- Armenia
Azerbaijan- Belarus
Bosnia and Herzegovina- Georgia
- Iceland
Kosovo
Liechtenstein
Moldova- Monaco
Montenegro
North Macedonia- Norway
Russia
San Marino
Serbia- Switzerland
Turkey
Ukraine- United Kingdom
Vatican City
Ingredients of a Novel
by bill - 2021-03-18 ( culture / writing / advice ) [html version]
VARIOUS WRITERS' RULES 
ALWAYS ASK
STRUCTURE
Act I;
Act II;
Act III;
GENRE
Pick one, preferably, but you can always combine them
THEME
The theme of a story is a lesson or message the story is trying to tell us. Some stories have only one theme or message. Other stories have many lessons or messages.
PREMISE
Come up with one, such as "He was an expert on widgets and took it upon himself to rid the world of faulty widgets!"
SETTING
CONFLICT
Contrary to what you would do in real life, CREATE PROBLEMS, LOTS OF THEM... with solutions.
CHARACTERS
The characters are who the story is about. A good character description includes:;
And all characters have relationships.
The Protagonist;
The Antagonist(s);
MOTIVATIONS
Goal (An important object);
BASIC PERSONALITIES
Make a protagonist (or at least their goal) likeable;
PLOT
The plot is what happens in the story. Usually a character has a problem or conflict. The plot consists of the events that help the character solve or deal with a problem.;
QUESTIONS YOUR READERS ARE ASKING
CLIMAX/RESOLUTION (solution)
And don't forget the unspoken things like the moral of the story
New Rules for Writers -- Your Novel Blueprint -- Advice for Writing -- Writers Need Followers? -- Good Article About Storytelling -- Best and Worst Self-Publishing Sites -- Thoughts on Writing -- More Advice for Writers -- Ingredients of a Novel -- Lee Child Quote -- Elements of a Story -- Still More Advice for Writers
Interview of Dr. Lee Merritt by the Health Ranger
by doug - 2021-05-05 ( life / health / advice ) [html version]
Excellent interview of Dr. Lee Merritt by the Health Ranger
Order An Angel Shot
by bill - 2021-06-28 ( life / health / safety / advice ) [html version]
I had no idea. Good to know.
Read the rest here."If you ever feel uncomfortable at a bar, or require some form of assistance, order an "angel shot" and a bartender will escort you to your car. It could save your life."
Keep Your Dog Safe from Dognapping
by becky simmonds - 2021-09-07 ( family / pets / dogs / advice ) [html version]
"If you're anything like us here at Breed Advisor, we simply can't imagine life without our four-legged family members. That's why we were horrified to learn that approximately 2 million canines are dognapped each year.
Sadly, dog abductions have become increasingly common over the past decade. In fact, American Kennel Club president Tom Sharp reports that the number of stolen dogs has increased by a whopping 70% since 2010..."
Read, listen or watch the rest here. And, read her other articles here.
Elements of a Story
by bill - 2021-10-02 ( culture / writing / advice ) [html version]
They say...
What are the main ELEMENTS OF A STORY? Setting; Character; Plot; Conflict; Theme; Point-of-view; Tone; Style;
... but I would put them in order of importance: Character, Conflict, Plot, Point-of-view, Theme, Style, Tone, Setting
Read, listen or watch the rest here: Elements of a Story
New Rules for Writers -- Your Novel Blueprint -- Advice for Writing -- Writers Need Followers? -- Good Article About Storytelling -- Best and Worst Self-Publishing Sites -- Thoughts on Writing -- More Advice for Writers -- Ingredients of a Novel -- Lee Child Quote -- Elements of a Story -- Still More Advice for Writers
Reduce Food Waste by Storing Fresh Fruits and Vegetables Properly
by bill - 2022-06-13 ( life / health / food / advice ) [html version]
"Bananas: Bananas release high levels of ethylene gas, so store them alone on the counter. Once they're ripe, move bananas to the fridge for a couple of days until you're ready to eat them. Buy bananas that are still a little green so they don't get overripe too quickly.
Berries: Blackberries, blueberries, raspberries and strawberries should be refrigerated in a sealed container with a little airflow and lined with towels to prevent the buildup of moisture. Keep the lid slightly ajar or use a container with holes in it.
Broccoli: Since broccoli is a winter vegetable, it can handle cold temperatures. Keep whole heads of broccoli in the cool crisper drawer and wrap them in a damp towel to stay fresh."
No Talking to Police
by don - 2022-07-22 ( life / help / advice / legal ) [html version]
Even if you already know all this, it's a great reminder because of the high possibility that police today are "just following orders" from their globalist leaders. Don't be a fool. Listen to this advice.
"This classic presentation by James Duane to a group of students has been viewed on YouTube for probably hundreds of millions times, although some copies are starting to disappear, so we are loading it here also."
Hobo Traveler regarding USA
by don - 2022-07-25 ( life / travel / advice ) [html version]
Andy Graham has traveled nonstop for 25 years and evaluates the USA vs other places. Fascinating: Watch on YouTube
Make Your Assets Invisible to Shakedown Artists
by don - 2022-08-04 ( education / research / investing / advice ) [html version]
This video, below, explains that you're better off with an offshore trigger trust, outside the reach of US courts (which may rule that the trust and the trustee are legally the same).
Watch it here: offshore trigger trust..."
The Four S's
by bill - 2022-08-24 ( life / help / advice ) [html version]
[Updated: 2022-09-27 00:56:53]
Be STRONG, be SMART, be SOFT, be SIMPLE.
That's it.
And don't confuse "soft" with "weak" or "simple" with "stupid." Simplicity is the hallmark of genius.
Personal Protection Advice
by steve - 2022-09-20 ( education / news / emails / conspiracies ) [html version]
I'll simply reply that here's a site to get ammo if you are NOT in California:
https://ammoseek.com/
It's against the law to buy ammo through the mail if you're a prisoner of Gavin
On Monday, September 19, 2022 at 02:19:14 PM
:
Great advice=
Sent: Monday, September 19, 2022 1:21 PM
personal protection advice= If= next month or year is going to be chaotic as some predict, you'll
need a pistol for protection, especially if you're female or old.
I made the mistake years ago of buying a semi-automatic pistol, because
I didn't know about guns. Semi-autos have a clip (magazine) with a
spring which will wear out if it's stored with bullets in it, and
probably jam when you fire it. Therefore, you need a revolver that is
small enough to carry if need be, but in any case, you'd want to store
at home fully loaded (unless you have kids).
But you should pay cash because all the credit card companies have
announced they are categorizing all gun and ammo purchases (for
reporting to govt).
I also, years ago, bought a pump shotgun because had told me
that the sound of pumping it will scare any burglar away. However, a
pump shotgun also has a spring magazine, so it can't be stored with
shells in it or the spring will wear out and jam. So if you get a
shotgun, get one that has an ordinary firing mechanism that can be
stored ready to fire.
Just imagine how nervous you'd be if woken up at 3am by a burglar --
loading a magazine is not what you want to have to do, you want it ready
to fire.
Do NOT Take the Paxlovid Pill from Pfizer
by staff - 2023-01-17 ( life / health / advice ) [html version]
"Where is the intellectual curiosity of millions of doctors who blindly supported expensive, experimental products without circumspection, but scoffed at every cheap, safe, and long-standing approved therapeutic to treat covid? Whether the medical community finds its spiritual catharsis or not, House Republicans need to engage in oversight of the shots, remdesivir, and Paxlovid – including their side effects, what led to their expedited approval and purchase by the federal government, and how we stop this from happening in the future."
Congress Must Investigate Pfizer's Other Dangerous Boondoggle: Paxlovid
How to Win in Court Without a Lawyer
by staff - 2023-01-24 ( life / health / advice / legal ) [html version]
Terrific advice and examples by people who know the rules that allow them to win cases. Very hopeful information. click here
Description: Pro se expert James Tracy and "How to Win in Court WITHOUT a Lawyer" course creator Dr. Fred Graves join me to discuss HOW to DEFEAT the tyranny of evil men. Thanks for tuning in!
Solid Financial Advice
by doug - 2023-02-19 ( education / news / emails / conspiracies ) [html version]
Preserving family wealth. Very short video: bitchute
Creating Job Opportunities for People with Disabilities
by elijah dawson - 2023-03-18 ( life / money / employment / advice ) [html version]
People with disabilities often have difficulty entering the job market due to a lack of access to applications, reasonable accommodations, and support networks. Employers can make their hiring process more inclusive by taking deliberate steps to provide more job opportunities for people with disabilities. By doing so, employers can help create a more equal and accessible job market for everyone. Here are some tips:
Creating a Professional Brochure for Applicants
Creating brochures or flyers that outline job opportunities and provide application instructions can make it easier for people with disabilities to find job postings. With design tools, employers can also quickly and easily create visually appealing materials. By leveraging these resources, employers can open up a wide range of new recruitment avenues.
Possibilities for Accessible Applications
Employers should prioritize accessibility and create digital employment application opportunities. This can range from email submission forms and online portals to digital questionnaires. These methods provide an equal opportunity for applicants with disabilities to thoroughly apply for positions without having to worry about navigating physical spaces or filling out manual paperwork.
Organizations That Assist PWDs
Organizations like Disability Rights International (DRI) are working hard to ensure that people with disabilities have the same job opportunities as everyone else. These networks offer a wide range of resources, from coaching programs to disability awareness training, to help employers better support potential applicants with disabilities. Connecting with these networks gives employers access to a more diverse pool of potential hires and an opportunity to make meaningful changes within their organization.
Providing Fair Accommodations
Under ADA regulations, employers must provide reasonable accommodations for employees with disabilities when needed. This includes providing specialist equipment such as wheelchair ramps, text-to-speech software, adjustable desks, etc., depending on the applicant's needs. Reasonable accommodations should also be provided during the interview process so that all applicants have an equal chance of being hired based solely on their qualifications and not any additional factors related to their disability status.
Diversity Recruiting Events
Employers should take advantage of diversity recruitment events to reach a diverse pool of potential hires, including those with disabilities. By participating in these events, employers can showcase job openings and directly connect with job applicants, giving them access they wouldn't receive elsewhere. This is an effective way of expanding their talent pool beyond traditional recruiting methods.
Strengthen Knowledge About ADA Rules
Employers should ensure that all staff members are aware of the rules and regulations of the Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA). This is essential to balancing out any potential inequality during the hiring process and beyond. Managers and supervisors should familiarize themselves with ADA laws in order to handle any reasonable accommodations requests from employees who may have a disability.
How to Be a Better Supervisor/Manager
As an employer, it's important to recognize and embrace the diversity of all staff members, including those with disabilities who require special needs. A positive attitude and a focus on building relationships can help foster growth and productivity in the workplace. No matter the size of your business or industry, there is always potential to improve employees' experience.
Employing individuals with disabilities can be incredibly beneficial for businesses. It opens up an untapped talent pool that could bring unique perspectives and skills to your organization, aiding in long-term success. To make this process easier for employers, accessible application opportunities should be offered online or virtually and networks that support PWDs should be utilized. Increasing awareness of ADA regulations also helps business owners reap the rewards associated with employing PWDs and making the workplace more accessible.
Contributed by Elijah Dawson
Advice for Children from the WHO
by staff - 2023-03-31 ( education / research ) [html version]
people who know who they are are difficult to boss around; the more
confused children are, the easier they are to program
On 3/30/23 13:40:
yeah, yeah, sexually prepare kids for the pedophiles they'll soon have
accosting them. maybe we can get more kids mentally messed up, taking
gender drugs, and shooting up schools?
On Thursday, March 30, 2023 at 10:29:11 AM ,
someone wrote:
Here's a short video that mentions what the world health organization
(WHO) recommends for the entire world, every country.
Get your barf bucket ready on standby.
https://www.bitchute.com/video/5Ucr1NfB1DGi/
After you stomach this tiny part of their wonderful advice, ask
yourself whether you should listen to anything else they say.
Remember, they are the one trying to control all medical choices for
everyone.
Tips When Looking for An Accessible Home
by elijah dawson - 2023-04-05 ( life / help / advice / home-buying ) [html version]
Accessible homes aren't as few and far between as you might imagine. In fact, it is possible to find a home that will cater to all your requirements if you know where to look and who to contact to make it happen. This guide shared by FriendsNews can help you get started.
Get specific
If you are a senior or person with a disability, you'll know best what type of home you need to make you happy. If you're not good at articulating your thoughts, it may be beneficial to put pen to paper and describe in detail exactly what you're looking for. This information will also help your Realtor narrow down your options so you get exactly (or close to) what you're looking for. Besides enlisting the assistance of a Realtor, you can do part of the research yourself by browsing properties online and filtering down to your minimum requirements to ensure you get as close as possible to what you want. Also, make comparisons of properties so you can get an idea of how properties with similar features are priced.
What is your affordability?
Your budget will also influence what you are realistically able to buy. As far as how big of a loan you can apply for, financial lenders will take several factors into account, including your credit score, your income, what you do for a living, and how much you want to borrow.
Do it yourself
If you've researched the housing market online and you're still unable to find your dream accessible home, then you may have to opt for an as-is property, which is usually cheaper than buying a home straight off the market. You could then use the additional savings to customize your home exactly to how you want it. Before settling on an as-is property, however, have it inspected by a property inspector so you can be sure you are buying a home without serious defects.
Examples of accessible features you might want to add
The nice thing about having an accessible home is that it does allow you to create a personalized home for yourself. Some examples of extensions, upgrades, and renovations that are popular inside accessible homes include:
Access to ramps if you aren't able to use stairs.
Wide doorways, hallways, and entrance ways for better mobility.
A bathroom on every level of the home. Popular accessibility upgrades include a seat in the shower, a level floor leading into the shower, handrails that could assist you in getting in and out of the shower without difficulty, non-slip flooring, adequate lighting, and a higher-positioned toilet for those who find it difficult to bend.
Modified levers and handles to make entering and leaving a room a hassle-free affair.
Getting ready to move in
If you are living with a disability, moving can have its challenges. However, you can make the moving process much easier and stress-free by choosing a moving company that has experience in moving your assistive devices with the utmost care.
The steps above should make moving to an accessible property a little bit easier. Be sure, though, to research as much as possible so you know what you qualify for to make your dream home a reality.
Image via Pexels
Contributed by Elijah Dawson
Thought for the Day (4-12-2023)
by bill - 2023-04-19 ( education / advice / life ) [html version]
It's okay to want to have things your way. Not to be selfish, but everyone likes to have things "just so." Don't expect too much or get angry when things aren't perfect but, for your own happiness, "your way" should be a goal.
Still More Advice for Writers
by bill - 2023-06-05 ( culture / writing / advice ) [html version]
I came across this video last night and thought, "Yes! Thank you!" This guy (and Lee Child) share my disagreement with the saying, "Show, Don't Tell." As Child puts it, "You tell a story. You don't show a story."
That saying might apply to visual story-telling such as film and TV, not so much the written word.
Anyway, here's the link to Brandon McNulty's video.
See also Advice for Writing and More Advice for Writers
New Rules for Writers -- Your Novel Blueprint -- Advice for Writing -- Writers Need Followers? -- Good Article About Storytelling -- Best and Worst Self-Publishing Sites -- Thoughts on Writing -- More Advice for Writers -- Ingredients of a Novel -- Lee Child Quote -- Elements of a Story -- Still More Advice for Writers
Very interesting financial advice
by doug - 2023-08-08 ( education / research ) [html version]
Isn't that just convenient that the FBI refuses to release all the hours of footage because it "might" show all their agents in the crowd helping to create their false flag event
And the CIA still won't release all the JFK assassination files even when everyone associated with it are long dead. But don't dare question anything because that's what conspiracy theorists do. No, we're in such good hands when these creatures are in control.
Sent: Sunday, August 6, 2023 8:06 PM- --
Very interesting financial advice
Well, , you forgot to warn people that if they do watch the video, they will be confronted with TESTIMONY that the gov't was in on the Jan 6 DC attack and thus none of the video proving that can be seen.
On Sunday, August 6, 2023 at 10:12:01 AM
:
From Bob Kudla. He's very successful.
https://www.bitchute.com/video/F4QCD4jQj7ZF/
Harness Adversity for Growth
by elijah dawson - 2024-01-09 ( life / health / mental / advice ) [html version]
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Transforming Challenges Into Strengths
Adversity, often perceived as a hindrance, can unexpectedly be a powerful catalyst for personal growth. This article delves into how navigating life's challenges can foster resilience, enhance self-awareness, and develop empathy, ultimately equipping us with invaluable life skills. We explore the multifaceted ways in which overcoming obstacles not only strengthens our character but also reshapes our life's trajectory in meaningful ways.
Building Resilience Through Adversity
When faced with adversity, we are compelled to develop resilience. This process involves learning to withstand and recover from difficult situations, thereby fortifying our emotional and mental well-being. The ability to bounce back from setbacks is not innate; it is honed through experiences of overcoming challenges. Resilience is about adapting to adversity, learning from it, and emerging stronger and more capable of handling future hardships.
Cultivating Self-Awareness in Tough Times
Adversity often serves as a mirror, reflecting our inner strengths and vulnerabilities. During challenging times, we are pushed toward introspection and self-reflection, leading to enhanced self-awareness. This heightened understanding of ourselves is crucial for personal development and growth. It allows us to identify areas of improvement, align our actions with our values, and make conscious choices that lead to a more fulfilling life.
Sharpening Problem-Solving Skills Amidst Challenges
Dealing with adversity inevitably sharpens our problem-solving skills. Faced with complex situations, we learn to analyze various aspects, weigh options, and make informed decisions. This enhanced ability to navigate problems not only proves beneficial in overcoming current challenges but also equips us with a toolkit for handling future obstacles with greater ease and confidence.
Fostering Empathy Through Shared Struggles
Experiencing adversity can deepen our sense of empathy. By enduring hardships, we develop a greater understanding and compassion for others facing similar challenges. This empathetic perspective strengthens our relationships and fosters a more compassionate and supportive community. Empathy enriches our connections with others, making us more attuned to the needs and feelings of those around us.
Refining Coping Mechanisms for Emotional Resilience
Adversity teaches us effective ways to cope with stress and manage our emotions. Through trial and error, we discover coping strategies that work best for us, be it seeking support, engaging in hobbies, or practicing mindfulness. These improved coping mechanisms are invaluable for maintaining emotional balance and well-being, particularly during times of stress.
Embracing Gratitude Amidst Hardships
Overcoming difficulties often leads to a deeper appreciation for life's blessings. It teaches us to cherish the good moments and find joy in the small things. Cultivating gratitude in the face of adversity can shift our focus from what we lack to what we have, fostering a sense of contentment and overall happiness.
Reassessing Life Goals and Priorities Post-Adversity
Adverse experiences often prompt us to re-evaluate our life goals and priorities. They provide an opportunity to reassess our path and make adjustments that align more closely with our true desires and values. This re-evaluation can pave the way for more meaningful and fulfilling pursuits, guiding us toward a life that truly resonates with our core beliefs.
Entrepreneurship Post-Adversity
For many, overcoming adversity ignites entrepreneurial ambitions. When starting a new business venture, consider the benefits of forming an LLC (Limited Liability Company). An LLC can offer advantages like limited liability, tax benefits, and operational flexibility. Reading detailed reviews can aid in selecting the right service for your specific business needs. Utilize an LLC formation service like ZenBusiness to streamline the process without incurring high legal fees.
Embracing adversity as an opportunity for personal growth can transform challenges into stepping stones for success. Each obstacle we overcome not only builds resilience but also enriches our lives with deeper self-awareness, enhanced problem-solving skills, and a greater capacity for empathy. For those inspired to channel their experiences into entrepreneurial ventures, starting a business post-adversity can be a testament to their strength and determination. By adopting a mindset that views adversity as a catalyst for growth, we can unlock our potential and embark on a journey of continuous personal and professional development.
Navigating a Midlife Crisis
by elijah dawson - 2024-01-16 ( life / health / advice / aging ) [html version]
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Practical Strategies for a Fulfilling Journey
Our middle years often inspire a period of great reflection and contemplation commonly referred to as the “midlife crisis.” Rather than viewing this phase as a crisis, consider it an opportunity for personal growth and transformation. This article will delve into some actionable strategies that can help you navigate a midlife crisis and set you on a path of renewed purpose and fulfillment.
Embrace Healthier Lifestyle Habits
One of the fundamental steps in your journey toward self-discovery during midlife is to prioritize your physical and mental well-being. You can achieve this by gradually implementing healthier lifestyle habits. Regular exercise, target="_blank" href="https://www.healthline.com/health/balanced-diet">a balanced diet, and adequate rest will provide a solid foundation for the changes you seek to make. You should also monitor your caffeine intake, since caffeine is a diuretic and good hydration has been target="_blank" href="https://www.nih.gov/news-events/news-releases/good-hydration-linked-healthy-aging">linked to healthy aging.
Turn Your Passion into a Business
If you have nurtured a lifelong passion, consider the possibility of turning it into a thriving business venture. This endeavor not only holds the potential for substantial financial rewards but also promises a profound sense of purpose and fulfillment. However, it's important to remember that pursuing your passion as a business may require investments in tools and resources. Consider a customer data platform, target="_blank" href="https://www.gartner.com/reviews/market/customer-data-platforms">a powerful tool that consolidates and analyzes customer data from various sources, enabling businesses to gain valuable insights and deliver personalized experiences.
Go Back to School
If you’re looking for a fresh start, a great way to revitalize your mind is by going back to school. There are plenty of degree options, as well. For instance, if you have a knack for technology – or you wish you did – a computer science degree might be the best choice for you. And if you’re open to studying online, it’s worth target="_blank" href="https://www.phoenix.edu/online-information-technology-degrees/computer-science-bachelors-degree.html">understanding the value of an online computer science degree – which includes improved flexibility and the ability to work from home as you pursue a degree in a burgeoning industry.
Consider Rehab if Necessary
If you happen to be one of millions of Americans struggling with some form of addiction, take some time to look into the best rehab centers in the US. Don’t just look at prices and insurance coverage; also look at reviews, as well as treatment philosophies, so that you can find a facility that fits your personality and situation. Remember, there’s no shame in asking for help; in fact, that takes courage and is the first step toward a healthier life!
Cultivate Well-being Through Gardening
Gardening transcends being a mere hobby; it is a therapeutic pursuit that fosters both mental and physical well-being. Immersing oneself in the act of tending to a garden, getting hands deep into the soil, reveals its remarkable capacity to alleviate stress and offer a profound sense of fulfillment. The nurturing process of gardening serves as a holistic remedy, nurturing both the body and the mind.
Dig Deeper
To truly address the challenges of midlife, take time to introspect and target="_blank" href="https://www.trackinghappiness.com/causes-of-unhappiness/">unearth the root causes of your discontent. Is it your career, relationships, or dreams left unfulfilled? Identifying these underlying issues will enable you to make more targeted and effective changes to improve your life.
Elevate Your Wardrobe
Your outward appearance plays a significant role in influencing your self-esteem and overall confidence. Consider investing in a wardrobe update that aligns with your evolving style and personal growth. When you feel good about your appearance, it can have a positive impact on your outlook on life.
Embark on New Adventures
Stepping outside your comfort zone and embracing adventurous activities can be a powerful way to revitalize your spirit and rediscover your zest for life. Whether it's conquering a challenging hiking trail, trying a new sport, or target="_blank" href="https://www.bustle.com/wellness/how-to-find-hobby-adult">exploring a new hobby, these experiences can breathe new life into your journey. Adventure opens the door to renewed enthusiasm and a deeper appreciation for the vibrant tapestry of life.
Find Laughter in Everyday Life
Laughter is a potent antidote to life's trials and tribulations. target="_blank" href="https://yourstory.com/herstory/2021/12/7-ways-to-find-humour-in-lifes-situations">Seek opportunities for humor in everyday situations, connect with friends who bring joy and laughter into your life, and avoid taking yourself too seriously. A hearty laugh can be a source of immense joy and stress relief.
Educate Yourself
Knowledge is a valuable resource for navigating the complexities of midlife. Explore literature and resources dedicated to midlife crisis management. Numerous books and materials offer target="_blank" href="https://www.choosingtherapy.com/midlife-crisis-books/">invaluable insights and practical guidance for successfully traversing this phase of life. Learning from the experiences of others can provide you with a roadmap for your unique journey.
A midlife crisis represents a significant crossroads. Rather than fearing it, embrace this pivotal moment as an opportunity for greater growth and transformation. By adopting healthier habits, pursuing your passions, nurturing your well-being, and more, you can redefine this phase into one of fulfillment and enrichment. Embrace the wisdom that comes with age and embark on a journey that leads to renewed purpose and contentment. Remember, this journey is uniquely yours, and with these strategies, you can make it a truly remarkable one.
Writing Mantras
by bill - 2024-03-12 ( culture / writing / advice ) [html version]
No, not how to write a mantra. I mean here are a couple of mantras to keep in mind:
1) Most stories are about having something, losing it, and finding it again;
2) Just explain (clearly and concisely) WHAT HAPPENED, and keep it RELATABLE and INTERESTING.
Wisdom is Defined by What You Focus On
by bill - 2024-03-27 ( culture / quotes / advice ) [html version]
Focus on the title. :)
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